The Daily Mail has an amusing article today regarding music in churches. According to an online survey of 400 UK readers of the men’s magazine Sorted, the majority of blokes who responded said they ‘enjoyed singing – but added comments showing they preferred anthemic songs and ‘proclamational’ hymns as opposed to more emotional love songs.’ They also dislike flowers, embroidered banners, hugging, holding hands, dancing and ’sitting in circles discussing their feelings in church’. Oh dear.

songs-of-praiseOne of the characteristics of much contemporary worship music is that it gives expression to the emotions that hymns do not always evoke. Directed straight to God, they express love, devotion and emotion – sometimes in terms that can only be described as ‘pseudo-erotic’. I remember someone describing it as ‘Jesus is my girlfriend’ music.

Hymns, by contrast, are often giving expression to thoughts about God rather than feelings towards God. Hymns were deliberately written in ways that could be easily learned and remembered by everyone, whereas many contemporary songs are defined by rhythm, not predictable melody. (I remember being asked by an elderly man what ‘kerof’ meant. He was struggling with the Graham Kendrick Creed which proclimed: ‘We / believe / in God the Father, / Ma /kerof /the universe’.)

hymn-singingThe real issue here is not primarily to do with style of music (which is often a matter of cultural taste or habit), but what vocabulary the music is giving to a congregation to articulate the common experience of life it brings in to worship. Jesus’s hymnbook was the Book of Psalms from the Hebrew Bible. Contrary to some perceptions of the Psalms, most are not words of praise to an egotistical God; rather, they give expression to individual and corporate experiences such as lament, complaint, questioning, and so on.

I guess the question here is: how does the diet of songs in our churches provide a vocabulary for the experiences and circumstances of the diversity of people in the congregation?

One of the great losses from the Anglican experience of worship is the recital of the Psalms. No, I don’t want to go back to chanting – I could never manage that anyway. But reading the Psalms in order meant that we were forced to read aloud expressions of ‘worship’ and experience that might not at that moment be mine. But it would remind me of the needs and reality of others in the church whose current experience was different. It might even feed or stimulate my prayers for them and awareness of them.

So, having spent years leading worship, teaching songs and playing in bands, I have come to this rather meek conclusion: ‘Wet’ songs are OK and have their place, but only as part of a diet of songs that ask questions, express regret and fear, recognise the variety of people in our midst, make statements about God and the world, and have some integrity theologically as well as emotionally.

Worship is a communal experience, not an individual indulgence. Which means that I often find myself singing songs I hate – but find myself coughing at the bits where I stare into Jesus’s eyes and tell him he is lovely…

The Top Ten hymns in the survey were:

  • wet-jesusOnward Christian Soldiers
  • And Can It Be
  • Guide Me O Thy Great Redeemer
  • All People That On Earth Do Dwell
  • Be Thou My Vision
  • How Great Thou Art
  • Amazing Grace
  • Eternal Father, Strong To Save (For Those On Peril On The Sea)
  • Our God Reigns
  • Dear Lord And Father Of Mankind Forgive Our Foolish Ways
  • Discuss!