Girly music in church? We’ve set a hare running here…
One of the things the Charismatic Movement did in the 1970s and ’80s was give expression to worship that engaged the emotions. This probably had more to do with style of music than mere lyrical content. But it opened some parts of the church up to more emotional songs and that was surely no bad thing. There must be a limit to how many times you can robustly tell God who he is in any one service – which is what a lot of traditional hymns involved us in doing. (I suspect we are telling God what he already knows anyway; so for whose benefit are we doing it? To prove our orthodoxy or otherwise? Discuss…)
As music has developed, however, it has been interesting to see what has longevity and what passes by quickly. Unfortunately, some nonsense has as great a shelf life as some good stuff. I am still not sure how Jesus is supposed to respond to our invitation to ‘fill your sheep’ – as one famous worship song has it: what with – sage and onion?
It is also surely too easy to see a vicious circle between the drift of worship music and what people are increasingly referring to as ‘the feminisation of the church’. Although there may be elements of connection and truth here, I suspect this is too easy a correlation. English blokes are not always the best at being fully rounded emotional beings; so, shaping a spirituality around their sometimes stunted emotional articulacy might not be the wisest of moves. To go back to what I said in my last post on this matter, we need in public worship a diet that feeds not only the whole individual, but the individual of different temperaments at different times of life – that takes the individual as part of a community on a journey that will not always feel the right one at that time.
In other words, ‘worship’ (which, we must remember, is primarily directed to and about God) should provide a vocabulary (for body, mind and spirit) that enables a massive variety of people in a particular community at a particular time in a particular social context to express the truth of their experience and their soul to God and each other.
This is where I found the music of John Bell and the Iona Community‘s Wild Goose Worship (now ‘Resource’) Group revolutionary. Taking traditional (and, therefore, already known and loved) tunes, they put new words to them and opened up new expressions of worship. This meant starting where people really are and not pretending that worship starts where life is left behind. Rather than collude in the fantasy that has a worship leader announcing: ‘Let’s leave behind all the stuff of the week just gone – all the preoccupations, etc. – and focus our minds on God’, it encourages people precisely to bring to God their individual and communal experiences and NOT to forget or ignore them. That is why the singing of songs from the World Church (in their own languages) is so important: it helps us briefly enter into the experience of others who are not like us and learn to pray for them.
But two further points remain from comments on my last post. The first has to do with the ‘sacred/secular’ divide. The banality of some Christian worship music (both lyrically and musically), when set against the raw honesty and lyrical intelligence of some ‘secular’ music, is embarrassing.
I contributed to a BBC Radio 2 documentary in November 2008 which was celebrating the 25th anniversary of Leonard Cohen‘s Hallelujah – before it was desecrated by Simon Cowell’s pets – and trying to work out why the song had been covered by so many people. What was the appeal of the song? One of the questions put to me was: ‘Hasn’t Cohen simply stolen the language of religion and applied it to sex and physical experience?’ My response? ‘No, Cohen has understood what many Christians have failed to grasp: that God is interested in the whole of life and not just the ‘spiritual’ bits. When Cohen, reaching deep into the contradictions of sex and love and loss, recalls fallen biblical characters (who are also, and despite this, seen as heroes in the Bible) sings of the ‘broken hallelujah’, he is accepting that we all come to God as messed up people.
But this leads me to the question put to me in an interview with Ludovic Hunter-Tilney of the Financial Times (4/5 April 2009) about the concern of many rock musicians with spirituality. Ludo questioned whether the rock gig now replaces the ‘church’ experience of corporate worship. I think my response can be summarised as: the rock gig might engage with spirituality (seen as the ‘existential reality and experience/questioning’) of the audience, but it is not ‘worship’ insofar as it is not directed towards an object of ultimate value. But it is an experience of corporate questioning, valuing, affirming and questioning – however contradictory.
Maybe the rock gig has become the closest some people get to ‘common worship’ because the churches have failed to provide the space in which genuine (and often inadequate or contradictory) expression of life, emotion, affirmation and questioning can take place without the leader putting you right before the end of verse 4 of the final song/hymn.
Wesley said that we learn our theology not from what we hear from the pulpit, but from what we sing. Put a good tune to rubbish and it will become popular – and it will soon have us believing rubbish as well as singing it. The ancient/modern debate in relation to worship is now redundant. The question that is pressing has more to do with whether we have clergy and other ‘worship leaders’ who understand what is going on in ‘services’ and are able to create the space in which people can find that the whole of life matters to God – and that, in expressing our individual and common experience, we find that we have been found by the God who is not surprised by what he sees and hears?
May 9, 2009 at 10:51 am
Good reflections Nick. But who writes the songs that are considered too ‘girly’ – men or women? And it’s not only guys who cringe at singing the Jesus is my girlfriend/boyfriend songs. There’s a song I just can’t join in with at my church ‘Love you so much, Jesus’.
May 9, 2009 at 12:11 pm
That is a really interesting question. Has anyone done a quick survey of which gender is writing which songs? I can’t hlep wondering how the Jesus I read about in the Gospels would react to some of the stuff we sing to him while … er … gazing into his beautiful eyes…
May 9, 2009 at 1:02 pm
“The first has to do with the ’sacred/secular’ divide. The banality of some Christian worship music (both lyrically and musically), when set against the raw honesty and lyrical intelligence of some ’secular’ music, is embarrassing.”
What if there is religious music and there is secular music, and some works in each category are sacred?
I would agree that some religious music, intended for worship, fails to be sacred in some contexts. And I would certainly agree that there is much in secular music that is sacred despite no intent on the part of the composer for it to be used in explicit, structured worship. I’m embarrassingly under-exposed to the pop music world, but this is not a new phenomenon.
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Taking folk music and putting new words to it–brilliant! So much easier than attempting to write a hit. But I think there is something to be said for going the other direction too, finding words that inspire new music.
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“Maybe the rock gig has become the closest some people get to ‘common worship’ because the churches have failed to provide the space in which genuine (and often inadequate or contradictory) expression of life, emotion, affirmation and questioning can take place without the leader putting you right before the end of verse 4 of the final song/hymn.”
That was certainly my experience in some ways; despite a love of singing and my musical involvement in church growing up, I felt there was no room for my questions, no room for my awkwardness. There was little discussion of the fact that faith is not always easy, little patience for my doctrinal struggles. There were no relationships where I felt encouraged to be myself or even recognised as anyone other than “the minister’s stepdaughter, who is very musical.” As the experience of sacred music could be had elsewhere there was no reason to stay at church.
There are a lot of factors in that which have to do with family dynamics or with moving every two or three years or with mistakes that I made, rather than with the format or content of worship. But I wonder if more intentionally accepting worship structures or content would have helped build something closer to the sort of community I see at Leafy Suburb Church, where people seem to support each other wherever they are in life and faith, and where I’ve been made to feel very welcome, even though my initial reasons for going were more personal than anything else. I don’t think more intentionally accepting format or content needs to be, or should be, wishy-washy. I keep coming back to psalmody here.
May 9, 2009 at 4:32 pm
My observation is that Christian worship music goes through phases. I think it was the influence particularly of John Wimber in the 1980’s in songs like ‘Isn’t he beautiful’ that has led to the ‘girly’ accusation. I’ve just been at a conference for church leaders organised by New Wine, and most of the songs we sang were more ‘blokey’. I didn’t particularly like some of them – but that’s a matter of personal taste as I’d rather listen to Radio 3 in the car than anything else.
In the New Wine stream I’d say the songs coming out now have gone beyong the ‘Jesus I love you’ character (though I DO love Jesus and am not embarassed to sing that I do) and are more about declaring God’s goodness and encouraging the church to do the same. Rather in the same way that the psalmist says, ‘Come, let us sing to the Lord’ many of the newer songs are encouraging us and spurring us on to declare the goodness of God.
New Wine is moving from being a movement focussed on renewal, and with it the songs about how much we feel in love with Jesus, to becoming a movement focussed on mission. I think we’ll find the songs will change.
May 9, 2009 at 8:15 pm
Graham Kendrick actually produced a lot of songs that are musically, lyrically and doctrinally superior to a lot of the stuff that has since come out. Maybe Wimber’s ditty is part of the problem, but I suspect a lot of the weaker, dreamier songs came in the wake of the ‘Toronto Blessing’ and from Hillsong. Most churchgoers are female and the musical style reflects this.
May 10, 2009 at 2:23 am
Give a listen to Godfrey Birtill for some manly worship that is intercessory and prophetic and kicks up some dust for good measure. Check out the Old Man Worship Band on the stateside of the ‘lantic.
May 10, 2009 at 5:16 pm
Meanwhile, vital as this topic is, I see that Archbishop Carey has denounced the UK Parliament for endemic greed and ‘fiddling’ of expenses. (Such corruption is pretty familiar on the far side of the Atlantic as well – Rep. Rangel is expert at this game.) Maybe you’d like to comment on this pressing issue du jour, Nick?
May 11, 2009 at 12:03 pm
personally I can’t bear wishy-washy hymnody – good words, strong tune, Wesley was right!
But to pick up your point about ‘world music’, some of my favourite church-going is on holiday abroad when we worship in another language. We may not fully understand each word, but we know why we are there – it is for me a perfect illustration of the communion of saints, and I always find it uplifting.
May 12, 2009 at 10:52 am
I went to New Wine as a new Christian in the 90s and I loved the Matt Redman stuff because it was very scriptural which I think is more important than the genre of the music. I don’t think Matt Redman is/was particularly girly!
May 18, 2009 at 5:36 am
Come to this blog a bit late. But a subject dear to my heart. Girly or not may not be the central issue – it is whether the songs we sing actually reflect the life we live, as well as (and this is important) the life we long to live in God. Having said that, male experience and frustration with the world as it is and the church as it is and the way we wait for God to move and speak – these are all proper subjects for us to sing about, and are often not given full expression. So yes, John Bell’s material is fantastically welcome, though not as widely known as it should be. Read Nick Page’s fantastic “And now let’s move into a time of nonsense” for a good dissection of current songwriting in the charismatic church. I also agree deeply with Nick’s comments about getting songs from the World Church into our regular worship. This has kept me in touch with a 10 year sojourn in South Africa – although getting white Midlanders to handle Xhosa clicks in songs has been something of a challenge…
As to the previous comment about “being scriptural being more important than the genre of the music” – this does not negate the need to write high quality lyrics, which Matt Redman does SOME of the time! Songs that start from propositional evangelical truth might bolster our faith (and do!) but “I love you Lord” may be as serious and as significant a theological statement as “Up from the grave he arose” (and quite a bit more accurate, possibly?).
May 26, 2009 at 7:16 am
I want to know about the writer of this song.
May 14, 2010 at 9:31 pm
Very interesting site. Thank you.
Apropos Leonard Cohen
I think, you are right.
Leonard Cohen himself says:
You say I took the name in vain
I don’t even know the name
But if I did, well really, what’s it to you?
There’s a blaze of light in every word
It doesn’t matter which you heard
The holy or the broken Hallelujah
Selbst, wenn er die religiöse Sprache missbrauchen würde, auch da ist Licht drin.
Es macht nichts. Selbst wenn er Sprache umdeuten würde, das Halleluja bleibt – gebrochen aber nicht verstummt.
Worship and Cohen: the holy and broken Halleluja